9 places to meet your future girlfriend

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9 places to meet your future girlfriend


Are you on the prowl for your next girlfriend? Instead of trying to find the right girl in the wrong places, try any of our alternative locations where you can practice your game.

By Stella Bracwel | 28th September 2018
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You never know when or where you’ll meet the girl of your dreams. But there are a lot of conflicts in this adventure – the girl you like might want to keep things casual while you want something serious or vice versa. Basically, the probability of meeting a girl you like, someone who is compatible with you and feels the same way about you might seem hard to find. However, you would be surprised to know there are some places where cupids are on the loose. Places you can find love or where love can find you.

Now we are not claiming that you always have to consciously look for a girlfriend in these places. All we are implying is that there is a high chance of finding your future girlfriend there. If you find someone attractive, it is completely okay to approach her and let her know about how you feel.

1. Fitness Centres

Gym, yoga clubs, swimming zones, aerobics clubs etc. are some of the fitness centres that people prefer to go today. Yes, the main purpose of joining those fitness centres might be workout or maintaining a healthy body. But you would be surprised to know how many people found their partners in these fitness centres. Maybe there, you do not have your best foot forward but you are yourself in that environment and the girl gets to see how passionate you are about swimming, dancing or working out. Your mutual interest for fitness might bring you two close together.

2. Work

Yes, office romances are looked down upon at times. But love and dating can work out if you and your girlfriend can balance personal and professional life. When you are working for a similar profession, romance can spark off since your girlfriend will understand what type of situation you deal with every day. Having a girlfriend at work has its pros and cons however. The pros would be you can go to work together, help each other in meeting deadlines, can relate to office issues together. The cons are the formalities you have to deal with for having an office relationship. But at the end of the day, what is important is if you and your girlfriend are happy together, the list of pros and cons does not matter.

3. Dating Apps

You are a single and eligible bachelor and somehow cannot find a compatible partner for yourself. This is a pretty common situation for many men out there. We understand it’s difficult to find someone who has similar hobbies, taste and interests. When you sign into a dating app, you are making a conscious decision about finding a girlfriend. The good part about dating apps such as Match or Zoosk is that you can find your compatible partner who is catered to your specific emotional and intimate needs. The dating apps usually take a personality test to match with the person of your choice.

4. Educational Institution

School, college or university is also a diverse platform where you meet and interact with new people every day. To be on the safe side, it is quite good to start dating initially someone from a different department of college. It’s easy, fun and exciting! If you cannot muster the guts to directly walk up to that person and ask her out, the dating apps will do the work for you. Elite Singles is actually one of those dating apps that eligible educated singles sign up to. You will be surprised to meet career driven, smart and interesting women in there. In fact, their bio or personality summary will let you know what kind of relationship the girl is looking for. The website creates an algorithm to find suitable and compatible partners for you.

5. Dance Clubs

It is easy to fall for someone when you are having fun. Dance clubs or dance learning centres are one of the places where you can meet your love of life. Surprising right? Many love stories are actually initiated from salsa or zumba classes. If you are a fan of dance, you might want to start taking dance lessons to meet interesting girls.

6. Recreational Centres

Recreational centres such as clubs, bars, golf clubs, and spa zones are some of the places where you get to meet people from your community. Visiting recreational centres regularly gives you a chance to interact with people when they are on a light mood and ready to enjoy. In fact, we feel to lift up the mood and feel part of a community, visiting recreational centres at least on a bi-weekly basis is so important. You never know when you might find your future girlfriend during a day of relaxation.

7. Social Media Platforms

Another way to find girlfriend online is through social media platforms. Platforms such as Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp or Snapchat might not be specifically targeted towards dating. But through these platforms you can make new friends every day. It is not uncommon to find someone special among the new friends you make.

8. Parties

If you are looking for a partner to spend your Saturday evenings and Friday nights with, parties are a good place to start initially. Friends’ mutual party or social gatherings help you know new people inside and outside your community. In fact, you get to talk to many girls and have an initial idea about their personality and what they are looking for in a relationship. Even if you do not find the right girl, partying a little bit, drinking some beer with friends is no harm. Other than this, there are platforms like OurTime that arranges social gatherings and group activities to help you meet the right girl.

9. In a Foreign Land

Travelling for business or pleasure is always an exciting and a soothing experience especially when you are exploring something new. Finding someone intriguing and interesting in a foreign land is not rare at all. But yes, having a girlfriend in a different country or region might be tough at times. However, for flings dating someone from a foreign land with no strings attached is actually quite exciting and adventurous.

To Summarize

The best thing about all of these places is that you and your next girlfriend will already have a mutual interest i.e. similar hobbies (recreational centers). However, it is important to maintain an open mind and not write someone off based on the manner in which you were first acquainted. The real happiness comes from getting to know each other, and once you both are much closer, the introduction will not matter.

What other places do you think would be a good place to meet your next girlfriend? Share your comments below.

Written by
Stella Bracwel
Stella is a fashion blogger and crypto-investor, who also happens to be a dating expert as well. She is a traveller who has taken up writing as a full-time profession, so she can always do her job and have fun on the go.With her vast array of knowledge, Stella could get you hitched as well as rich so keep an eye out for her articles! Read more.
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  1. I have used dating apps for years but only found fakes so far. Maybe I need to go out into the real world. The outernet.

  2. I’m not gonna go to the gym just to meet a girlfriend! Why can’t the ladies go down the skate park?